Take control
If you think you cannot do anything about your problem, your stress can get worse.
That feeling of loss of control is one of the main causes of stress and lack of wellbeing.
The act of taking control is in itself empowering, and it's a crucial part of finding a solution that satisfies you and not someone else.
Have some "me time"
Many of us work long hours, meaning we often don't spend enough time doing things we really enjoy.
It's important to take some time for socialising, relaxation or exercise.
You could try setting aside a couple of nights a week for some quality "me time" away from work.
Avoid unhealthy habits
Don't rely on alcohol, smoking and caffeine as your ways of coping.
They might provide temporary relief, but in the long term, these crutches won't solve your problems. They'll just create new ones.
It's best to tackle the cause of your stress.
Try to be positive
Look for the positives in life, and things for which you're grateful.
Try writing down 3 things that went well, or for which you're grateful, at the end of every day.
Accept the things you can't change
Changing a difficult situation isn't always possible. Try to concentrate on the things you do have control over.
For example, if your company is making redundancies, you could focus on the things that you can control, such as looking for a new job.
Work smarter, not harder
Working smarter means prioritising your work, concentrating on the tasks that'll make a real difference.
Leave the least important tasks to last. Accept that you will not have time for everything.
Challenge yourself
Setting yourself goals and challenges, whether at work or outside, such as learning a new language or a new sport, can help build confidence. This may help you deal with stress.
Connect with people
A good support network of colleagues, friends and family can ease your work troubles and help you see things in a different way.
The activities we do with friends can help us relax and relieve stress.
Talking things through with a friend may also help you find solutions to your problems.
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